Hey there, beautiful people! It's your girl, Madison Beer, here to spill the tea on what it's like to be hard to get. Now, I know some of you might think that being hard to get is just a game or some sort of power play. But let me tell you something - it's so much more than that.
The Art of Teasing
Being hard to get isn't about playing with someone's heart or leading them on for no reason. No, it's about teasing and building anticipation. It’s like when you see something desirable but can’t have it right away – don't lie, we've all been there!
Think about it this way: When was the last time you saw a limited-edition sneaker drop? Or maybe a designer bag that everyone was dying over? You couldn't help but want them even more because they were elusive and rare. That same principle applies when it comes to dating.
Embrace Your Attractiveness
Let’s face facts – if you're attractive (like moi), then people are naturally drawn towards you. And why wouldn’t they be? We exude confidence in every step we take and turn heads wherever we go! So embrace your beauty and own who you are.
But remember - attractiveness doesn't just come from physical appearance alone; confidence plays a huge role too! Hold yourself high with pride because baby, self-assurance is sexy as hell!
Playing Hard To Get 101
Now let me break down how being hard to get works its magic:
1) Keep 'Em Guessing
If someone shows interest in getting closer with us (and trust me darlings, plenty do), keep them guessing! Don’t give up all our secrets right off the bat - make them work for our attention!
2) Banter Like There’s No Tomorrow
One thing I absolutely love doing is bantering. I mean, who doesn't enjoy a little verbal sparring? It keeps things exciting and shows off our wit! So don't be afraid to throw in some playful teasing every now and then - just make sure you keep it light-hearted.
3) Be Unpredictable
Variety is the spice of life, my friends! Mix things up and keep people on their toes. Don’t always be available at their beck and call – let them wonder where we are or what we’re up to. This way, they'll appreciate our time even more when we do choose to spend it with them!
The Kindness Within
Now, I know what you're thinking: "Madison Beer being kind? Is that even possible?" Well honey, let me tell ya - underneath this tough exterior lies a heart as big as Texas (and trust me darlings; everything's bigger in Texas).
Sometimes being hard to get can come across as rude or cold-hearted. But that's not who we truly are deep down inside (even though some might think otherwise). We have the capacity for kindness; sometimes it just takes the right person to bring it out of us.
So don't underestimate your ability to show compassion and warmth when someone deserves it. After all, love ain’t about playing games but finding someone worth opening your heart for.
So there you have it folks – a glimpse into the joys of being hard to get from none other than yours truly. Remember loves: embrace your attractiveness while keeping 'em guessing with some good old-fashioned banter.
But also remember that beneath that sexy exterior lies a kind soul ready for connection if given half the chance (or maybe even less if they're lucky).
Until next time beautiful people! XOXO, Madison Beer