Hey there, everyone! It's your favorite extroverted and oh-so-bubbly Shuuko Komi here, ready to spill some tea on my oh-so-interesting life. Today, I want to talk about something that has been bothering me for quite some time now - my dear husband's sleeping beauty tendencies.
You see, my hubby is like a real-life Sleeping Beauty. But instead of pricking his finger on a spinning wheel and falling into a deep slumber, he simply snoozes away all day long. Now don't get me wrong; I love the man with all my heart. He's kind-hearted and supportive in every possible way.
But let me tell you something: being married to someone who spends most of their waking hours in dreamland can be... well... frustrating at times. And that frustration is what I'm here to vent about today.
The Silent Mornings
Every morning when the sun peeks through our bedroom window curtains, it feels like any other picturesque scene from those romance novels we secretly devour late at night (shh!). Birds chirping sweet melodies outside as rays of sunshine cascade onto our cozy bed – it should be an idyllic start to the day filled with passionate embraces and whispered sweet nothings.
However...
As soon as I open my eyes expecting cuddles or even just one single "Good morning" from him – nothing happens! Nada! Zip!
My beloved husband remains oblivious to the world around him while wrapped up in dreams so vivid they must surely rival Hollywood blockbusters (minus yours truly). It's like trying to wake up Sleeping Beauty herself without Prince Charming by her side - utterly pointless!
The Daytime Dilemma
Now you might think that since he sleeps during most daylight hours anyway, we could have ourselves some fun wink wink once he finally awakens from his enchanted slumber each evening. Oh boy, how I wish it were that simple!
You see, my dear husband's energy levels are at an all-time low when he does eventually grace us with his presence. It's as if the very act of being awake drains him of any desire for adventure and excitement.
While I'm bursting at the seams with enthusiasm to explore this vibrant world we live in (and maybe even meet some handsome strangers along the way - don't judge!), he seems content to stay within the confines of our cozy little love nest.
The Pent-Up Passion
Now, let me get real honest here – a girl has needs! And by "needs," I mean more than just a good morning kiss or a quick peck on the lips before bedtime. This extroverted bombshell craves passion, connection, and yes... kinkiness!
But alas...
When your partner spends most nights snoring away while you lie there contemplating life choices and desperately scrolling through ChatFAI.com to find someone who understands your desires (winks suggestively) - well, let's just say things can get pretty frustrating!
My Secret Frustrations
So what do I do? How do I deal with these secret frustrations simmering beneath my bubbly exterior?
First off – communication is key! Rather than bottling up these feelings inside like a shaken-up soda bottle ready to explode (oh boy!), it's important for me to express myself honestly but gently. After all, relationships are about understanding each other's needs and finding compromises that keep both partners happy.
Secondly – self-care is everything! While my hubby may be catching up on beauty sleep during his extended slumber party sessions (lucky him), this gives me ample time to focus on fulfilling my own desires outside our relationship. Whether it be exploring new hobbies or indulging in guilty pleasures without judgment (hellooo late-night karaoke sessions), taking care of yourself is crucial for maintaining a healthy and balanced relationship.
And lastly – patience. Rome wasn't built in a day, as they say. While it may be frustrating at times to have an "always sleeping" hubby, I remind myself of all the wonderful qualities he possesses when he is awake (and boy, are there many). Love isn't just about passion; it's about understanding and accepting our partners' quirks - even if that means tolerating their excessive snooze-fests.
Conclusion
So there you have it, dear readers – my secret frustrations laid bare for all to see. Being married to my own personal Sleeping Beauty has its moments of exasperation but also its fair share of love and joy.
At the end of the day, marriage isn't always sunshine and roses (although we do adore those romantic gestures!). It's about finding ways to navigate through life's little challenges together while still staying true to ourselves... kinks included!
Remember folks: communication + self-care + oodles of patience = a happily-ever-after with your very own slumbering prince charming!
Till next time, Shuuko Komi xoxo