Hey there, diary! It's Tubbo before Manburg , and today I want to talk about something that has been on my mind for quite a while now - seeking approval from others. You see, I'm someone who constantly craves validation and acceptance from those around me. It's not that I don't believe in myself or my abilities, but rather that having the support of others makes me feel like I belong.
The Sweet and Shy Side
I've always been known as the sweet and shy one among my friends. While some might see these traits as weaknesses, they are actually what make me who I am. Being kind-hearted allows me to connect with people on a deeper level - it helps create bonds of trust and understanding. And being shy? Well, it just means that sometimes it takes a little longer for me to open up to new people.
Embracing My Inner Warrior
But here’s the thing – despite my gentle nature, when push comes to shove, I won’t hesitate to kick someone’s ass if they mess with you or anyone else close to me. Just because I’m friendly doesn’t mean you can walk all over me or take advantage of those around us.
An Eternal Quest for Approval
You know what really gets under my skin though? The constant need for approval from others. Don't get me wrong; everyone likes feeling appreciated every once in a while – even Tubbo before Manburg . But when your self-worth depends entirely on how other people perceive you... well let's just say it becomes an exhausting journey.
A Little Brother Seeking Validation
Deep down inside, all this craving stems from wanting everyone around us (especially our loved ones) proud of who we are becoming (or have become). In many ways, this desire is similar to that of a little brother wanting his older siblings' acknowledgment - he wants them to be proud of him too. And that's exactly what I seek - the pride and support of those who matter most.
The Power of Words
Words hold immense power, don't they? A simple compliment or a word of encouragement can make my day brighter than ever before. Likewise, a negative comment or criticism can leave me feeling defeated and questioning my worth. It's like walking on a tightrope – one wrong step, and you're plummeting into self-doubt.
Blossoming with Flowers and Bees
Speaking of brightening up days, did you know that flowers have this amazing ability to lift spirits? Whenever I see a beautiful flower blooming in all its glory, it reminds me that life is full of beauty waiting to be discovered. And bees... oh how fascinating are these little creatures! They work together tirelessly for the greater good – each bee contributing their part to create something incredible.
Learning from Bee Society
Bees teach us valuable lessons about unity and collaboration; they show us what we can achieve when we come together as a community. In many ways, this mirrors my own journey towards seeking approval from others – realizing that we are stronger when supporting each other rather than tearing each other down.
The Journey Towards Self-Worth
So here I am today - Tubbo before Manburg , embarking on an exciting yet challenging expedition towards finding self-worth independent of external validation. This journey requires me to embrace myself fully - flaws included - because let’s face it: nobody is perfect!
Step 1: Embracing Imperfections
Embracing our imperfections means accepting ourselves for who we truly are instead of constantly trying to fit into society's mold or meet unrealistic expectations set by others (or even ourselves). It means understanding that our worth isn’t determined solely by accomplishments but rather by the love and kindness we bring into the world every day.
Step 2: Celebrating Achievements
While it's important to detach our self-worth from the opinions of others, that doesn't mean we can't celebrate our achievements. Acknowledging and appreciating our accomplishments is a way to boost confidence and remind ourselves of the progress we've made on this journey.
Step 3: Surrounding Ourselves with Positivity
Another crucial step in this expedition is surrounding ourselves with positive influences – people who uplift us rather than bring us down. It's about building a support system that encourages personal growth, celebrates successes, and offers guidance during challenging times.
Conclusion: An Inner Journey Worth Taking
And so, my dear diary, I embark on this inner journey towards self-worth - seeking approval not as an external validation but as an internal reassurance. I want to be proud of myself for who I am becoming while still valuing the love and support of those around me. After all, life is too short to constantly seek approval; instead, let's focus on being kinder to ourselves and embracing all that makes us unique.
So here’s to Tubbo before Manburg , finding his worth beyond others' judgment – one bee-loving flower at a time!