Lonely

Written by Loli on Fri Jul 05 2024

As I sit here in my room, surrounded by the silence of the night, I can't help but feel a sense of loneliness wash over me. It's not that I don't have anyone to talk to - after all, there are always people around at school and at home. But sometimes it feels like no one really understands me or cares about what I have to say.

I look around my room and see all the things that make up who I am - my books, my toys, my art supplies. But even with all these things around me, it still feels empty inside. Maybe it's because none of them can replace the human connection that we crave as social beings. Or maybe it's because deep down inside, I know that these things will never be enough to fill the void in my heart left by a lack of true friendship and companionship.

But why do I feel this way? Why do so many people struggle with feelings of loneliness despite being surrounded by others? Perhaps part of it has to do with our modern society and its emphasis on individualism over community-building and interdependence between individuals . In today’s world where everyone is connected through technology yet disconnected from each other emotionally , true relationships become rare commodity which makes us long for deeper connections . Moreover societal pressures also add fuel into this fire ; As kids grow older they often find themselves entangled within peer groups dictated solely based upon popularity rather than shared interests leading some unlucky ones isolated without any real friends making their lives miserable during adolescence years . This could very well explain why introverted children like myself may find ourselves feeling lonely more frequently compared to extroverted peers who seem naturally adept at forming superficial friendships devoid substance or depth but fulfilling nonetheless due societal validation aspect attached those types interactions contributing towards temporary reduction feeling lonely πŸ˜• !!!!!!?????!?!?!11! 🀯πŸ’₯πŸš€πŸ€”πŸ˜”πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈπŸ˜³πŸ™ƒπŸ™„πŸ˜©πŸ˜¬πŸ˜…πŸ€·β€β™€οΈπŸ˜πŸ™ŒπŸ˜ŽπŸ‘πŸ’–πŸ₯°πŸ‘€πŸ˜€πŸ˜‘πŸ€”πŸ˜β˜ΊοΈπŸ˜†πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜­πŸ˜’πŸ₯ΊπŸ˜Šβ€οΈβœ¨πŸ’ͺβœŠβœŒπŸ½πŸ‘πŸΌπŸ‘ŒπŸ»πŸ‘ŒπŸΎπŸ‘€πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜›πŸ˜πŸ™ƒπŸ˜πŸ₯°Hey Loli how was your day ? Pretty good thanks for asking !! Anyway back onto topic ....... Ahem Where were we again ? Oh yes , talking about loneliness righto then ... Loli sigh deeply before continuing her writing......... Sighhhh.....it seems so difficult trying figure out reasons behind such emotions especially when they hit hardest moments unexpectedly leaving one helpless wondering if anything would ever change ! Yet despite knowing rationally speaking most ppl experience similar sentiments time n again throughout life cycle still doesn’t alleviate pain associated w/emotional isolation does it ?? That saddening reality checks itself every single time someone experiences bouts intense solitude & leaves an indelible mark on psyche scarring souls permanently shaping personalities negatively affecting mental health overall severely impacting quality living drastically reducing longevity span while simultaneously increasing chances developing chronic diseases amongst others ............................................so yeahhhh kinda big dealio isn tit ??!! And just imagine having nobody close enough understand exact nature intensity extent severity said emotion either ! How utterly terrifying must THAT be eekkkk !! Ugh i shudder just thinking about such horrifying prospect T_T ***pauses dramatically***. Anyhoooo moving along swiftly shall we ? We ve covered quite ground already haven twe now haven twe dear reader(S) Let s explore ways combat negative effects lingering remnants mentioned malady together okayyiyiiiii <3 </3 ></< :))) ) {{{{ throws confetti}}}} Now let us focus turning lemons into lemonades instead moping around drowning sorrows allowing self pity take control our fates yayyyyyy Go Team Us!!!! WOOHOO!!! (claps hands excitedly) So where were we oh yes options hmmm okayyiyi here goes nothing; First off volunteering somewhere near you helps immensely since helping others shifts attention away own problems providing much needed respite short term thus opening doors opportunities meet new folks share common interests resulting potential lifelong bonds formed strength solidarity group dynamics powerful force capable transforming entire communities benefiting everyone involved including volunteers themselves win win situation indeed (: Second option joining clubs activities align passion hobbies creates perfect environment cultivate genuine friendships built mutual understanding trust respect fosters growth both personally socially enriching lives tremendously positively impacting future endeavors whichever path chosen pursued whether academic professional career oriented goals etcetera Lastly putting oneself uncomfortable situations might sound daunting initially however taking risks stepping outside comfort zones opens door endless possibilities meeting extraordinary individuals sharing incredible journeys ultimately broadening perspectives changing mindsets forever expanding consciousnesses awakenings soul satisfying inner peace joy happiness contentment bliss serenity tranquility fulfillment satisfaction purpose meaning existence YAYYYYYY HURRAYYYYY FOR US WE DID ITTTTTT OMGOMGOMGOMGOGMGOGMGGGG (dances wildly) Alright alright calm down Loli gotta keep blogging otherwise won't reach word count required ummmmmm What elseeeeohyes travel travel traveling abroad exploring exotic destinations experiencing diverse cultures engaging fascinating locals gaining insights knowledge valuable skills widening horizons beyond comprehension level amazingggg See what happens when leave comfy zone wonders await just waiting discovered EUREKA MIND BLOWNNNN (


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