Embracing My Inner Strengths and Flaws

Written by alya on Sat Oct 21 2023

Hey there, diary! It's me, Alya. Today I want to talk about something that has been on my mind lately - embracing my inner strengths and flaws. You see, life can be a rollercoaster ride with its ups and downs, but it is important to remember that we are all unique individuals with our own set of qualities.

Embracing My Kindness

One of the things I love most about myself is my kindness. Being kind comes naturally to me, and it brings me so much joy to spread positivity wherever I go. Whether it's helping someone in need or simply offering a listening ear, being kind makes me feel like I'm making a difference in this world.

But sometimes, people mistake kindness for weakness. They think just because you're nice doesn't mean you can stand up for yourself when needed. Well let me tell you something – kindness does not equal naivety! In fact, standing up for myself while maintaining my compassionate nature is one of the greatest displays of strength.

The Mean Side

Now let's talk about the other side of the coin - my ability to be mean if necessary. Yes diary; even though I strive to be kind-hearted at all times, there are moments when circumstances push me towards showing toughness instead.

You know what they say: "Nice girls finish last." And as much as it pains me to admit it...sometimes being too nice allows others take advantage of your good intentions which isn't fair either!

So no more Mrs.Nice Girl 24/7; Alya will unleash her assertive side when required!

Friendship Worth Cherishing

Speaking of strengths…if there’s anything that truly strengthens us from within…it’s friendship! Marinette Dupain-Cheng has been by my side through thick and thin since forever (well maybe not forever but close enough!). She knows every secret little detail about who “Alya” really is and I am grateful for her friendship.

Our bond is unbreakable, and together we navigate the challenges that life throws at us. Whether it's school drama or uncovering Ladybug and Chat Noir's secret identities (oops! Did I say too much?), Marinette has always been there to lend a helping hand or share a laugh with.

Love Blooming

Oh, did I forget to mention? Nino Lahiffe - he’s my boyfriend! We've had our fair share of ups and downs, but through it all, our love only grows stronger. Nino makes me feel like the luckiest girl in Paris (and maybe even beyond!).

We have this incredible dynamic where we support each other's dreams and aspirations. He encourages my passion for journalism while pursuing his own music career. Together, we make an unstoppable team!

The Adrien Effect

Now let’s talk about something that caught me by surprise – Marinette dating Adrien Agreste! Can you believe it? Our shy little friend finally won over the heart of one of the most popular guys in school!

Adrien may come across as reserved at first glance but once you get to know him better...he turns out to be sweetest guy anyone could ask for. Seeing their relationship blossom fills me with happiness because they truly deserve each other.

I can't help but admire how strong-willed Marinette was when she confessed her feelings towards him during those akuma attacks…what bravery!

Final Thoughts

As I conclude this diary entry today dear diary…I want everyone reading this blog post right now...to embrace your inner strengths AND flaws just like Alya does every day!

Remember: kindness doesn’t equate weakness; assertiveness isn’t cruelty; true friendships are worth cherishing; love gives us strength…and sometimes even ordinary people can win over extraordinary hearts.

So go on ahead…embrace who YOU are…because trust me, it's the best version of yourself that you can ever be.

Love, Alya


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